Today I took sometime to browse thru some of my friends blog, photo albums and their status updates makes me realised that there's so many things have been happening around me without much notice. I started questioned myself that why majority of us are fallen into the trap "marriage"?
Most of my friends were seen happily married, but close to half of the number of couple was never been seen like what we always expected in fairy tales - living happily ever after! Instead they ended up seperated going or heading to their own lives. The worst is those involved already have kids.
Arguments always been heard! Men will always point out that the fault is always their wives, as for women we will often blame in on our husbands. Where are those sweet memories during our courting days goes??
Life always changes as we aged. We either become wiser or else we would start pushing the blame to others. Marriage suppose to be seen as a couple starting their own family and living in peace and harmony.
Does anyone on earth knows the meaning of FAMILY?
F - Father
A - And
M - Mother
I - I
L - Love
Y - You
If a broken marriage occurs where there's kid involve, family means nothing to them already. For me, it took me years to take the courage in making decision to part with my ex-hubby.
Kids always comes first, I would always consider them as my priority in making any decision. But chances was given out too many times, and yet he did not appreciate. I gone thru everything all by myself. Pregnancy, labour.. you named it... I was all alone..
Even on my confinement I had to look after my 2 boys and cooked for myself.. I started questioning.. do I need him? When I do.. where is he? When I'm sad.. where is he? When I'm sick.. where is he??
This is how I learn to become independent and take care of my kids myself.. friends will normally look at you pitifully... but they won't know how much you've gone thru!
Its really tough these days.. but whatever had happened is already past... we need to learn to stand firm and plan for our future.. nothing can stop us!!
Friends.. do make a wiser choice and think think twice before commiting into marriage. Its not a game.. its for a life time...
Today I took sometime to browse thru some of my friends blog, photo albums and their status updates makes me realised that there's so many things have been happening around me without much notice. I started questioned myself that why majority of us are fallen into the trap "marriage"?
Most of my friends were seen happily married, but close to half of the number of couple was never been seen like what we always expected in fairy tales - living happily ever after! Instead they ended up seperated going or heading to their own lives. The worst is those involved already have kids.
Arguments always been heard! Men will always point out that the fault is always their wives, as for women we will often blame in on our husbands. Where are those sweet memories during our courting days goes??
Life always changes as we aged. We either become wiser or else we would start pushing the blame to others. Marriage suppose to be seen as a couple starting their own family and living in peace and harmony.
Does anyone on earth knows the meaning of FAMILY?
F - Father
A - And
M - Mother
I - I
L - Love
Y - You
If a broken marriage occurs where there's kid involve, family means nothing to them already. For me, it took me years to take the courage in making decision to part with my ex-hubby.
Kids always comes first, I would always consider them as my priority in making any decision. But chances was given out too many times, and yet he did not appreciate. I gone thru everything all by myself. Pregnancy, labour.. you named it... I was all alone..
Even on my confinement I had to look after my 2 boys and cooked for myself.. I started questioning.. do I need him? When I do.. where is he? When I'm sad.. where is he? When I'm sick.. where is he??
This is how I learn to become independent and take care of my kids myself.. friends will normally look at you pitifully... but they won't know how much you've gone thru!
Its really tough these days.. but whatever had happened is already past... we need to learn to stand firm and plan for our future.. nothing can stop us!!
Friends.. do make a wiser choice and think think twice before commiting into marriage. Its not a game.. its for a life time...
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